Meditation by the Sea




I am here to help you release negative beliefs that no longer serve you, and to help your renew your mind and elevate your thoughts. I am a seeker of truth, and I value education. I was born and raised in the church, but it took almost forty years before I came to know God in a much deeper and loving way. I have a new thought about religion. My new thought helps me to be a more effective Mindset & Spiritual coach.

I was born and raised in University City, Missouri, a suburb of St. Louis. I graduated from Florida A & M College of Pharmacy and Florida State College of Law. After working years as both an attorney and a pharmacist, I realized I enjoyed and excelled most at counseling. So, I obtained a certificate in coaching then a Masters in Counseling.

 I use my education and life experiences to enlighten, encourage and empower others to live their best lives. I am a God-worshipping, Jesus-loving, Bible-believing, New Thought Christian, but I do not profess that Christianity is the only way to commune, serve or praise God. We are all one with God, because God is the everywhere equally presence of absolute good.  



Juris Doctorate - Florida State University

Masters in Counseling - Capella University

Bachelors of Science in Pharmacy - Florida A & M University


Certificate in Executive Coaching - Kaplan 

Certificate in Trauma & Resilience - FSU

Mediation Training

Civil Harassment



Restorative Justice


"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind" - The Apostle Paul (Romans 12:2)

I help people to think about what they think about. I offer a variety of life coaching services that will nurture your spirit, help you release beliefs that no longer serve you, and allow your to live life more abundantly. Contact me if you are ready to start living the life that you desire.

Take the free 5 Day Elevate Challenge 


I know firsthand how changing your mind will change your life. I went from depressed and thoughts of suicide to finding something every day to be grateful for, which has and continues to open me up to receive an overflow of blessings. If you want help to live your best life,then I can help because I am living my best life. I have learned to enjoy the journey of reaching my goals. I believe that God put me on this earth to help you: 

  •  Accept that God's will for your life is good

  • ​Break free from limiting beliefs that no longer serve you

  • Clarify what you want and what success looks like for you

  • ​Discover your purpose and walk in your true calling

  • ​Encourage, enlighten and excite you about your possibilities 



As a mediator, I help facilitate communication between parties. After countless mediations, I have noticed how poor communication is what usually causes conflict. I can help you to sharpen your communication skills and enhance your listening skills to better resolve conflicts.

Let me help you resolve conflicts in your relationships. 

Parent - Teen


Child Support

Parenting Plans (visitation schedules)


Creativity blocks can be removed by changing your mindset. I believe that creativity is a gift God gives to us all. I do not limit my creativity to only writing books. Nevertheless, I can best help creatives who want to write their first book, fiction or nonfiction.

I can help you with:


your why and who you are writing for

a writing plan

character development (fiction)

story structure (fiction)

the business of self-publishing

If you are serious about finally getting that book out of your head and onto the page, I can help.

Light in the Sky

“Our life is what our thoughts make it”

Marcus Aurelius




The I AM BLESSED JOURNAL is a weekly journal will help you realize that being blessed is more than just a hashtag on social media. Blessed is a state of mind, and daily we must decide to be blessed. The I AM BLESSED JOURNAL provides you space to count your blessings and lessons, and to write a weekly letter of gratitude. Every week there is a new thought elevation to encourage and remind you that you are blessed.


The world discovered the "Secret" and began prospering. The law of attraction was no secret to those of us in the church who have been reading and memorizing Biblical scriptures since childhood. Unfortunately, many of us have not accepted that the law of attraction is indeed a principle of God.


If you are tired of watching others prosper while you rely on a miracle from God every month just to make ends meet, then you need to read this book. It will help you elevate your thoughts and exercise your faith. This book will also help you decide what an abundant life looks like for YOU.



Undefiled is a thought-provoking story that seamlessly weaves themes of forgiveness, acceptance, love, and intimacy. Liz and Anthony are thrown together when his mother falls ill. Their attraction is instant, and love blooms quickly. Anthony is the man of her dreams and the answer to Liz’s prayers, but one of Anthony's disgruntled ex-lovers threatens their happily-ever-after. The night before their wedding, Anthony tells Liz an uncomfortable truth about his past. Liz has to decide if she can get beyond the shocking reality of Anthony's past or leave him standing at the altar.


Ty Samuels is trying to enjoy her single life while following God's Word, so she joins a Bible Study class for young single Christians. However, remaining chaste will not be easy after she meets the tall, good-looking NBA star who has everything but decides he wants Ty.




The Blessed podcast is to help you experience being blessed that transcends a mere hashtag. If you’re ready to be encouraged, enlightened and entertained, then you should tune in. We broadcast on WYTV7 Christian Broadcasters Network, a nonprofit charitable radio broadcast with a mission to empower, encourage and educate.  


Blessed airs on the WYTV7 Facebook page on Wednesday at 9 pm (EST), and a new podcast episode is available every Thursdays at 12 noon (EST). Just click the link to hear an episode or two.


If you enjoy the Blessed podcast, then please donate to help further our mission at To be a guest and share your journey to being blessed or to advertise your product or service, contact Raykel at Join the Tribe Called Blessed Facebook group


Auntie Ray is here with advice, solicited and unsolicited, for whomever needs it. I offer advice about parenting, relationships, and just life in general. I'll answer your questions you send to me at, and I offer unsolicited advice to celebrities. I'm like your favorite auntie you can sit and have a drink with and be free to be authentically you. I might quote scripture, but in the next sentence cuss. I have Sunday advice and Friday night advice after I've had a few glasses of wine.

Write That Book Webinar
Sun, Apr 19
Apr 19, 2:30 PM – 3:10 PM


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